{"id":955,"date":"2021-02-04T18:47:16","date_gmt":"2021-02-04T18:47:16","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/almosttheweekend.com\/?p=955"},"modified":"2023-05-09T21:21:00","modified_gmt":"2023-05-09T20:21:00","slug":"how-to-stop-the-sunday-night-blues","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/almosttheweekend.com\/how-to-stop-the-sunday-night-blues\/","title":{"rendered":"How to Stop the Sunday Night Blues"},"content":{"rendered":"\n<h2 class=\"wp-block-heading\">How to Stop that Sunday Night Sadness<\/h2>\n\n\n\n<p>Sunday afternoon\u2019s fading into evening, Monday morning is looming, and there\u2019s <em>A Feeling<\/em> creeping up on you. A low-level but persistent gloom, somewhere between anxiety and dread\u2026 Yep, here come the Sunday night blues.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<h2 class=\"wp-block-heading\"><strong>Why do we get the Sunday Night Blues?<\/strong><\/h2>\n\n\n\n<p>Even during the pandemic, when so many of us are working from home, Sunday night anxiety hasn\u2019t gone away. That&#8217;s not surprising when you factor in fears about job security, the stress of parents struggling to balance their own jobs with homeschooling, and the general toll that pandemic life takes on us all.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p><strong>But what causes the Sunday night blues? Why do you get anxious on Sunday evenings? <\/strong><\/p>\n\n\n\n<p><strong>&#8230;And why are we wasting time worrying about the inevitability of Monday rather than enjoying our precious free time?<\/strong><\/p>\n\n\n\n<h2 class=\"wp-block-heading\"><strong>Beating That Sunday Evening Feeling<\/strong><\/h2>\n\n\n\n<p>Sunday night anxiety is really a form of negative anticipation. We\u2019re thinking ahead instead of being present in the moment. That\u2019s not always bad: on Fridays we get happy thinking about the weekend that hasn\u2019t begun yet. But on Sundays, all that thinking about Monday morning just removes the pleasure of a weekend that\u2019s not yet over. Being mindful of this is a good start to reclaiming your Sunday and saying goodbye to the Sunday night blues.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<h2 class=\"wp-block-heading\"><strong>How to Stop the Sunday Night Blues<\/strong><\/h2>\n\n\n\n<p>So, time to take your Sunday back and get rid of the Sunday scaries: but how do you start? <strong>Begin by recognising that while you may not have control over what happens on Monday, you do have control over how you\u2019re going to spend your precious Sunday<\/strong> \u2013 and that can be key to tackling those uneasy feelings before they even start.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>Here are 8 practical tips for stopping your Sunday night anxiety in its tracks.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<h3 class=\"wp-block-heading\"><strong>1. End Fridays with Monday in Mind<\/strong><\/h3>\n\n\n\n<p>Got that Friday feeling? Cruising into the weekend feeling excited for the days ahead? Great \u2013 but before you head out for the weekend, harness that positive energy and spend a short time leaving things as organised as you can for Monday.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p><strong>Doing a few simple things on Fridays can greatly reduce the stress of Sunday evening and means you can start fresh on Monday feeling calm and in control.<\/strong> Try some of these:<\/p>\n\n\n\n<ul class=\"wp-block-list\">\n<li>Tidy your desk or workstation and leave it ready and prepared<\/li>\n\n\n\n<li>Leave yourself a clean, new to-do list of tasks and priorities for next week so you can start afresh and know exactly what to do first<\/li>\n\n\n\n<li>Try not to schedule meetings for Monday mornings so you can start the week at your own pace<\/li>\n\n\n\n<li>Empty the kids\u2019 school bags and folders and leave them ready for next week<\/li>\n\n\n\n<li>Check the calendar for next week\u2019s events and do what you can to prepare for them before the weekend<\/li>\n\n\n\n<li>Working from home? Book your grocery delivery for Fridays and have all the shopping done before the weekend<\/li>\n<\/ul>\n\n\n\n<h3 class=\"wp-block-heading\"><strong>2. Get your life admin done early in the weekend<\/strong><\/h3>\n\n\n\n<p>Weekends will inevitably involve a certain level of life maintenance, so don\u2019t leave it all until Sunday.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>If it all possible, get as much as you can done on Saturday morning. If you can get the laundry, housework, paperwork etc out of the way early in the weekend, the rest of the time is yours to enjoy. You can also enjoy knowing you have all the boring stuff accomplished and not hanging over you.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>Most importantly, it will allow you to keep Sundays as fun days, and that can really help to break the negative associations that lead to the Sunday night fear.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<h3 class=\"wp-block-heading\"><strong>3. Move your fun to Sundays<\/strong><\/h3>\n\n\n<div class=\"wp-block-image\">\n<figure class=\"aligncenter\"><img decoding=\"async\" width=\"800\" height=\"461\" src=\"https:\/\/almosttheweekend.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2021\/02\/move-your-fun-to-sundays.jpg\" alt=\"Stop the Sunday night blues\" class=\"wp-image-960\" srcset=\"https:\/\/almosttheweekend.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2021\/02\/move-your-fun-to-sundays.jpg 800w, https:\/\/almosttheweekend.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2021\/02\/move-your-fun-to-sundays-300x173.jpg 300w, https:\/\/almosttheweekend.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2021\/02\/move-your-fun-to-sundays-768x443.jpg 768w, https:\/\/almosttheweekend.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2021\/02\/move-your-fun-to-sundays-610x352.jpg 610w\" sizes=\"(max-width: 800px) 100vw, 800px\" \/><\/figure><\/div>\n\n\n<p>If you normally use at least part of your Sundays for chores and errands, keeping them free of boring stuff will let you enjoy them to the full. Start looking forward to Sunday!<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>You should definitely begin with the <a href=\"https:\/\/almosttheweekend.com\/the-perfect-sunday-morning\/\" target=\"_blank\" rel=\"noopener\"><strong>perfect Sunday morning<\/strong><\/a>&nbsp;to get your day off to the best start.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>After that, try to actively plan something fun for Sundays, whether it\u2019s at home or outside, with friends, family or by yourself.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>You could even turn it into a regular thing. Have a little Sunday afternoon ritual that you can look forward to.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<h3 class=\"wp-block-heading\"><strong>4. Stop stressing about whether you\u2019ve \u201cmade the most\u201d of your weekend<\/strong><\/h3>\n\n\n\n<p>It\u2019s a common feeling to waste time wondering whether you\u2019ve done enough \/ achieved enough \/ had enough fun on your precious days off \u2013 but ultimately this way of thinking is just likely to make you dread Monday even more.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>Instead, <strong>view your weekend for what it is \u2013 a couple of days off to recharge<\/strong>. If all you\u2019ve done this past weekend is catch up on the laundry and watch Netflix, then what does it actually matter? Maybe that\u2019s exactly what you needed: some downtime after a busy week.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>On the other hand, if you\u2019ve had an action-packed, fun-filled weekend and now you\u2019re feeling guilty that you haven\u2019t caught up on all those home improvements you were planning, then ask yourself if it really matters. Be thankful for the enjoyment you\u2019ve had.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>Ultimately, if you can stop feeling guilty about the things you didn\u2019t do this weekend, and are able to appreciate the things you did do, it goes a long way towards allaying that feeling of Sunday night dread about the weekend being over.<\/p>\n\n\n<div class=\"wp-block-image\">\n<figure class=\"aligncenter\"><img decoding=\"async\" width=\"683\" height=\"1024\" src=\"https:\/\/almosttheweekend.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2021\/02\/stop-the-sunday-night-blues-pin-683x1024.jpg\" alt=\"How to Stop the Sunday Night Blues\" class=\"wp-image-964\" srcset=\"https:\/\/almosttheweekend.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2021\/02\/stop-the-sunday-night-blues-pin-683x1024.jpg 683w, https:\/\/almosttheweekend.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2021\/02\/stop-the-sunday-night-blues-pin-200x300.jpg 200w, https:\/\/almosttheweekend.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2021\/02\/stop-the-sunday-night-blues-pin-768x1152.jpg 768w, https:\/\/almosttheweekend.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2021\/02\/stop-the-sunday-night-blues-pin-610x915.jpg 610w, https:\/\/almosttheweekend.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2021\/02\/stop-the-sunday-night-blues-pin.jpg 1000w\" sizes=\"(max-width: 683px) 100vw, 683px\" \/><\/figure><\/div>\n\n\n<h3 class=\"wp-block-heading\"><strong>5. Do Sunday night right<\/strong><\/h3>\n\n\n\n<p>There\u2019s so much advice out there along the lines of \u201cwhat to on Sunday night for a productive week\u201d, and for some people that works really well. However, if you\u2019re prone to the Sunday night blues, that method might not be best for you. It might even make you feel like the weekend\u2019s already over, when that\u2019s not the case.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>Instead, try front-loading your weekend with the dull stuff (on Saturday morning if you can) and save Sunday night for relaxing and doing something you enjoy. It\u2019s a last chance to stretch out the weekend and make the most of it before the new week starts. Catch up with a friend, go for a walk at dusk, have a family movie night, take a long bath, or start a new book.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>If you follow my <a href=\"https:\/\/www.instagram.com\/almost.the.weekend\/\" target=\"_blank\" rel=\"noopener\"><strong>Instagram<\/strong><\/a>, you\u2019ll see I regularly post pictures about <strong>#doingsundaynightright<\/strong> .<\/p>\n\n\n\n<h3 class=\"wp-block-heading\"><strong>6. Prioritise your Sunday night sleep<\/strong><\/h3>\n\n\n\n<p>If you\u2019re a parent of young children, you\u2019re probably all too familiar with the concept of staying up late just to get time to yourself after they go to bed, but then ending up exhausted. It\u2019s the same with Sunday night: staying up late in order to put off Monday might feel like you\u2019re winning, but in the end it\u2019s only going to make Monday morning a bit harder.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>Additionally, lack of sleep tends only to worsen a vicious circle of increasing anxiety and sleeplessness: not a great start to the week.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>Be conscious of your bedtime on Sundays: you could even start going to bed a little earlier on Sunday nights with a magazine or podcast to help you wind down.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<h3 class=\"wp-block-heading\"><strong>7. Improve your Monday<\/strong><\/h3>\n\n\n<div class=\"wp-block-image\">\n<figure class=\"aligncenter\"><img decoding=\"async\" width=\"1024\" height=\"597\" src=\"https:\/\/almosttheweekend.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2021\/02\/make-monday-better-1024x597.jpg\" alt=\"Make Monday better mug on windowsill\" class=\"wp-image-961\" srcset=\"https:\/\/almosttheweekend.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2021\/02\/make-monday-better-1024x597.jpg 1024w, https:\/\/almosttheweekend.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2021\/02\/make-monday-better-300x175.jpg 300w, https:\/\/almosttheweekend.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2021\/02\/make-monday-better-768x448.jpg 768w, https:\/\/almosttheweekend.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2021\/02\/make-monday-better-610x356.jpg 610w, https:\/\/almosttheweekend.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2021\/02\/make-monday-better.jpg 1080w\" sizes=\"(max-width: 1024px) 100vw, 1024px\" \/><\/figure><\/div>\n\n\n<p>If you still can\u2019t stop the Sunday night blues, try making Monday better. Monday has a pretty bad reputation, but it doesn\u2019t need to be the worst day of the week.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>Turning Monday around with a selection of small changes can make you feel better about the start of the week.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<ul class=\"wp-block-list\">\n<li>Get up slightly earlier than usual: ten minutes should be enough to accommodate the slower rate many of us move at on Monday mornings<\/li>\n\n\n\n<li>Have breakfast planned and ready to go so you don\u2019t end up skipping it if you&#8217;re running late<\/li>\n\n\n\n<li>Make a Monday morning playlist of feelgood tunes, either for the shower, the car, or a kitchen disco with the kids (they\u2019ll be up for it even if you\u2019re not)<\/li>\n\n\n\n<li>Wear your favourite outfit (or if you\u2019re working from home, your favourite top!)<\/li>\n\n\n\n<li>Plan something enjoyable for your lunch break, even if it\u2019s just a brief walk<\/li>\n\n\n\n<li>Have a small Monday night reward to look forward to, like a favourite dinner or episode of your favourite TV show<\/li>\n<\/ul>\n\n\n\n<p>By building more enjoyable things into your day, you can start to anticipate Monday in a positive way, instead of focusing on the negative.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<h3 class=\"wp-block-heading\"><strong>8. If all else fails, make a change<\/strong><\/h3>\n\n\n\n<p>If your Sunday night anxiety is getting worse and becoming a big problem, or it\u2019s starting to creep into more and more of the week, it\u2019s probably time to step back and look at the root causes. If your job is the reason you feel so down on Sunday night, it really might be time for a change. And while change is never easy, it\u2019s got to be better than the huge cloud of dread every week.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>Evaluate all the factors and talk to friends and family about it so you can start to plan how you can make a positive change.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>I hope this post helps you to take back your Sundays, stop the Sunday night blues in their tracks. Weekends are precious, so don\u2019t let them be over too soon.<\/p>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"<p>Don&#8217;t get overcome by Sunday evening anxiety. 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